Scott Adams on Failure, Success, and the Importance of Acquiring New Skills

“Everything you want out of life is in that huge, bubbling vat of failure. The trick is to get the good stuff out.”

Cover of How to Fail and Almost Everything and Still Win Big“Mistakes aren’t a necessary evil. They aren’t evil at all,” Ed Catmull mused in his timeless discussion about mistakes and why children need to be allowed to fail“Failure is a manifestation of learning and exploration,” he said. But as it turns out, failure is necessary for more than just personal growth — it’s also a prerequisite for success.

Scott Adams, the creator of the Dilbert comic strip, says he “failed at more challenges than anyone I know.” In How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big (public library), Adams shares how he endured and embraced innumerable failures before eventually becoming successful beyond his wildest dreams. His advice is required reading for young adults hoping to improve their career prospects.

“Everything you want out of life is in that huge, bubbling vat of failure,” says Adams in the book. “The trick is to get the good stuff out.” To fail towards success, as Adams calls it, young adults first need to learn the systems and practices of successful people. But that’s easier said than done, especially since potential paths to success are rarely taught in school.

The primary purpose of schools is to prepare kids for success in adulthood. That’s why it seems odd to me that schools don’t have required courses on the systems and practices of successful people. Success isn’t magic; it’s generally the product of picking a good system and following it until luck finds you. Unfortunately, schools barely have the resources to teach basic course work. Students are on their own to figure out the best systems for success.

If we can’t count on schools to teach kids the systems of success, how will people learn those important skills? The children of successful people probably learn by observation and parental coaching. But most people are not born to highly successful parents. The average kid spends almost no time around highly successful people, and certainly not during the workday, when those successful people are applying their methods. The young are intentionally insulated from the adult world of work. At best, kids see the television and movie versions of how to succeed, and that isn’t much help.

Dilbert cartoon

How can young adults learn about systems of success? Adams recommends reading books written by highly successful people. But he has his own personal formula for success that revolves around the acquisition and application of skills. That’s what he recommends young adults focus on: acquiring skills that they can use in a variety of circumstances.

When I speak to young people on the topic of success, as I often do, I tell them there’s a formula for it. You can manipulate your odds of success by how you choose to fill out the variables in the formula. The formula, roughly speaking, is that every skill you acquire doubles your odds of success.

Notice I didn’t say anything about the level of proficiency you need to achieve for each skill. I didn’t mention anything about excellence or being world-class. The idea is that you can raise your market value by being merely good — not extraordinary — at more than one skill… To put the success formula into its simplest form:

Good + Good > Excellent

Scott Adams
Scott Adams

Adams admits that his advice is a simplification, but he argues it’s necessary to trick your brain into proactively wanting to acquire more skills.

When I say each skill you acquire will double your odds of success, that’s a useful simplification. Obviously some skills are more valuable than others, and the twelfth skill you acquire might have less value than each of the first eleven. But if you think of each skill in terms of doubling your chances of success, it will steer your actions more effectively than if you assume the benefit of learning a new skill will get lost in the rounding. Logically, you might think it would make more sense to have either an accurate formula for success or none at all. But that’s not how our brains are wired. Sometimes an entirely inaccurate formula is a handy way to move you in the right direction if it offers the benefit of simplicity.

If I told you that taking a class in website design during your evenings might double your odds of career success, the thought would increase the odds that you would act. If instead I only offered you a vague opinion that acquiring new skills is beneficial, you wouldn’t feel particularly motivated. When you accept without necessarily believing that each new skill doubles your odds of success, you effectively hack (trick) your brain to be more proactive in your pursuit of success. Looking at the familiar in new ways can change your behavior even when the new point of view focuses on the imaginary.

Scott Adams
Scott Adams

The goal, according to Adams, is to have skills that you can assemble when applying for a job, starting a business, or doing virtually anything else. That’s what Adams did when he created his Dilbert comic strip.

I’m a perfect example of the power of leveraging multiple mediocre skills. I’m a rich and famous cartoonist who doesn’t draw well. At social gatherings I’m usually not the funniest person in the room. My writing skills are good, not great. But what I have that most artists and cartoonists do not have is years of corporate business experience plus an MBA from Berkeley’s Haas School of Business. In the early years of Dilbert my business experience served as the fodder for the comic. Eventually I discovered that my business skills were essential in navigating Dilbert from a cult hit to a household name. My combined mediocre skills are worth far more than the sum of the parts. If you think extraordinary talent and a maniacal pursuit of excellence are necessary for success, I say that’s just one approach, and probably the hardest. When it comes to skills, quantity often beats quality.

How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big is a great read for young adults who are thinking about their future career prospects. It’s clear that Scott Adams learned a lot from his failures, and his advice about acquiring skills is invaluable for readers who are just getting started professionally. Complement with iWoza book that contains Apple cofounder Steve Wozniak’s advice for kids interested in technology.

A Little Bit of Dirt: Outdoor Science and Art Activities that Connect Kids with Nature

A thoughtfully designed activity book that helps children immerse themselves in nature.

Cover of A Little Bit of Dirt“A child’s world is fresh and new and beautiful, full of wonder and excitement,” said Rachel Carson, the famous crusader against synthetic pesticides and one of the founders of the modern environmental movement. “It is our misfortune that for most of us that clear-eyed vision, that true instinct for what is beautiful and awe-inspiring, is dimmed and even lost before we reach adulthood.” 

Author Asia Citro doesn’t want to see that happen to future generations. Her book, A Little Bit of Dirt (public library), contains over 50 science and art activities designed to get parents and children outside and immersed in nature. The goal, she says, is to “find inspiration to get outside with your family, strengthen your connection with and understanding of nature, and experience the benefits of regular outdoor time.”

The book’s activities are simple, engaging, and well thought out. They’re designed for children ages 3-10 and can be worked on individually or collaboratively with parents. Whether you help your child with the activities or not, the book is sure to provide countless hours of fun.

Here’s a handful of the activities provided:

  • Nature Weaving: Create and decorate a natural loom using plants and other objects from nature.
  • Seed Bomb Lollipops: Fill balls of paper with seeds, put sticks on the ends of them, and then plant them upside down in the soil.
  • Earthworm Tower: Put earthworms in a plastic bottle and watch them eat leaves and turn them into soil.
  • Nature Boat: Combine nature objects to create a boat that floats.
  • Create Bird Feeders: Build a bird feeder using craft supplies, natural materials, and objects from your recycling bin.

Artwork from the book A Little Bit of Dirt

Artwork from the book A Little Bit of Dirt

In the introduction, Citro explains why she created the book and shares why she believes there’s never been a better time to get your children outside.

As our world becomes more complicated, structured, and technological, we get fewer simple, slow, and calm moments in our days. With school, extracurricular activities, and the lure of our technological devices, it’s easy for outdoor play to fall by the wayside. But outdoor play is a needed balance to our busy modern days.

Rather than just providing visual stimulation, as many of our indoor activities tend to do, outdoor play activates all the senses. Outdoor terrain is uneven, which challenges and develops our children’s motor skills in ways that manufactured surfaces can’t. Outdoor environments provide larger spaces for our children to run, skip, and climb — to keep their hearts and muscles strong. Time spent in nature is important to the development of healthy children.

Spending time outdoors is important no matter where you live. The book was thoughtfully designed with that in mind. In fact, it can be used by children living in virtually any environment, urban or otherwise. For most of the activities, all readers need is access to a park.

Artwork from the book A Little Bit of Dirt

Artwork from the book A Little Bit of Dirt

One of the implicit goals of these activities is to instill a deep appreciation of the natural world. It’s important for children to cultivate a sense of wonder — an insatiable curiosity about the planet, the creatures that inhabit it, and themselves. Rachel Carson said that it’s something every child should have:

If I had influence with the good fairy who is supposed to preside over the christening of all children I should ask that her gift to each child in the world be a sense of wonder so indestructible that it would last throughout life, as an unfailing antidote against the boredom and disenchantments of later years, the sterile preoccupation with things that are artificial, the alienation from the sources of our strength.

A Little Bit of Dirt is a fantastic collection of activities, but it won’t magically solve all of the problems facing children today. What it will do is give them the nudge they need to get outside and start playing in the dirt. And sometimes, a little nudge is all it takes to help children discover their primal, primitive desire to be outside in our true, original home. Complement with Fun at Home with Kids, the author’s website full of additional activities for children, and Mossya touching children’s story about keeping wild creatures in their native habitat.

The Darkest Dark: A Lesson in Overcoming Fears That Stand in the Way of Dreams

“The dark is for dreams — morning is for making them come true.”

9781101918623_0“Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood” opined Marie Curie, the famed scientist who developed the theory of radioactivity. “Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.” Curie’s timeless advice suggests that fear can be a motivational force for personal growth and an impetus for scientific discovery. For although fear is sometimes paralyzing, it’s also an agent of change. When it stands in the way of our dreams, fear forces us to change — or forever hold our silence.

Astronaut Chris Hadfield learned this lesson early in life. As a child, he dreamed of flying into space, but he was afraid of the dark. The Darkest Dark (public library), Hatfield’s autobiographical picture book for children, chronicles his personal experience with overcoming fear of the dark. Beautifully illustrated with a powerful message, The Darkest Dark is an inspiration to any child struggling with fear.

The story starts with Chris playing astronaut in a cardboard ship.

Chris was an astronaut. An important and very busy astronaut. When it was time to take a bath, he told his mother, ‘I’d love to, but I’m saving the planet from aliens.’ When it was time to get out of the bath and go to bed, he told his father — politely, because astronauts are always polite — ‘Sorry, no can do. I’m on my way to Mars.’

But at bedtime, when the lights are turned out, the fear creeps in. Chris slips into his parents’ bed after seeing aliens in his bedroom. His parents try to coax him back into his bed, but nothing works — except warning him that they might be too tired to watch the Apollo 11 landing on TV the next day.

Artwork from the book The Darkest Dark

Artwork from the book The Darkest Dark

Artwork from the book The Darkest Dark

Chris finally goes to sleep, and his family watches the Apollo 11 landing on television the next day. As he’s watching astronauts jump on the moon, he realizes that outer space is “the darkest dark.” The unspoken implication, of course, is that astronauts need to be comfortable in darkness. At home that evening, he tries an experiment. He turns off all of the lights in his bedroom and discovers he’s no longer afraid.

For the first time, Chris could see the power and mystery and velvety black beauty of the dark. And, he realized, you’re never really alone there. Your dreams are always with you, just waiting. Big dreams, about the kind of person you want to be. Wonderful dreams about the life you will live. Dreams that actually can come true.

Artwork from the book The Darkest Dark

Artwork from the book The Darkest Dark

Artwork from the book The Darkest DarkAristotle said that “he who has overcome his fears will truly be free.” That ancient wisdom won’t provide solace to the children who are afraid of the dark, but it will embolden those who have squarely faced their fears to conquer them. Hadfield’s story and professional career are proof that the people who overcome their fears can fulfill their dreams, no matter how lofty. His personal message to readers in the back of the book reinforces the message.

Being in the dark can feel scary… but it’s also an amazing place. The dark is where we see the stars and galaxies of our universe. The dark is where we find the Northern Lights shimmering and get to wish on shooting stars. And it was quietly in the dark where I first decided who I was going to be and imagined all the things I could do. The dark is for dreams — and morning is for making them come true.

Perfect in nearly every wayThe Darkest Dark is a remarkable achievement. Kids are sure to appreciate and remember this delightful children’s book and its beautiful illustrations. Complement with Gila Monsters Meet You at the Airport, a quirky book about dealing with big life changes.